The secret

...It's very simple and I've just now figured it out. The only time I've ever been without a man is when I didn't want one. I thought it was because I am adventurous in the bedroom, and take great care of my inner and outer self. That's part of it, but not all. The secret: I ACT LIKE A MAN.

They do not understand me, never has and never will. I don't cling. I don't live in expectation land. My ultimate goal in a relationship is not marriage and or children. I enjoy myself and let life take its course. One will never find me sitting waiting by the phone. If he messes up, I leave. Sexkitten has never met a man whom she cannot walk away from no matter how deeply I feel or how badly it hurts.

I don't expect or need them to pay my bills. I am mysterious and elusive. I don't have a charming bone in my body except when I want to--don't fight, or nag, or whine. What's the point? I look at other men and shows no jealousy when he looks at other women. (It's normal) I don't want to spend all of my time with him.

Men simply like us better if they can't contain us, use, misuse, or abuse us. Treat your man like a prince. Love him, treasure him, kiss him, have sex with him. DON'T EVER try to OWN HIM. Or let him believe that he owns you.

Comments

[Eric Castillo]

I'll buy that. Act like an adult with your own life and you're far more attractive than a simpering girl who needs my attention, particularly when it's not a good time because of something I can't control, like my job.

If you've got your own life, you can take or leave me, but don't try to control me and don't let me control you, well, damn, we've got a good thing going on.

Plus, wanting to have raucus hardcore sex a lot helps too. Least, it does with me.

[Joye]

Well said, SexKitten. Well said. I am in total agreement with you. The more I read, the more I think I've found my twin. I am the same way - I have always been referred to as the one who will never settle down - kids or not - and it's rung true to date. I may be madly in love with you, but piss me off and it's bye bye - and I don't look back. Well, ok, I may look back...but I don't GO back.
Well said. Keep these great entries coming...