I received a notice today from CX's lawyer, that the judge has granted their order to seal all proceedings, pleadings, transcripts and testimony in our case. That the Clerk of the Court has been directed to impound and seal the court files and restrict and prohibit access to all documents and electronic referenced to the file without court order."
I was not notified of yesterday's court date and will be filing a notice to vacate this order. I want the lies that he's told about me available for all to see. Those who study and understand psychopathy would recognize the pattern of pathological lying and contradictions.
I have expressed getting a Woman's Rights Group involve. That's the only reason that CX and his lawyer are asking for the files to be sealed. It is to protect his plots and schemes and lies and to keep me silent.
This is a custody case...
To ask that the files be sealed is without basis and shows just how terrified he is of the truth being told. Dreading exposure, he now seek the legal system to protect his lies.
Well, documentation exists.
As a target of this kind of abuse, it is now my mission to do my part in bringing awareness to this issue so that others can benefit. I know how dangerous speaking out is for me.
If CX is The psychopath that I believe him to be, being unmasked is what he fears most. He needs to shut me up before people start to believe me and decide to look at the evidence. That is why he wants the files sealed.
His lies have taken on a life of their own that he did not count on. I am supposed to be destroyed by now.
I am certain that I am not CX's only victim. I am not his first and I will not be his last. And justice may be around the corner. If not by the system, then nature. He's sick. Karma may soon come knocking at his door. It may be that all I have to do is sit back and watch nature take its course.
CX knows about my site and will attempt to bring his poison here. He will attempt to get me shut down. I suspect that he's been doing that already.
Every word that I have written here for the last 8 plus years is saved.
That which is written, cannot be undone. The evidence, seal or not, exists. It is only a matter of time for that which exists in the dark to make it's way into the light.
If one tells the truth and loses....one still wins. You didn't compromise who you are. You did not sell your soul.
Hey Kitten. All things shall pass. There's much sunshine waiting for you. If you feel that the cause is worthy, fight.
Posted by: Kyle | Wednesday, 25 April 2012 at 09:51 PM
I don't like to get involve in these things... But asking for a custody file to be sealed causes alarm bells to go off.
Why would a man with nothing to hide ask for the files to be sealed?
Posted by: NIgel | Wednesday, 25 April 2012 at 11:30 PM
I wish you and your family peace. I've been through a custody 'battle' and it's horrific. Take care if yourself.
Posted by: Karen | Thursday, 26 April 2012 at 02:47 PM
Kitten, I've been part of the legal system and it's a nightmare. If you want justice, this is not the last place to be. I hope things work out for everyone. Fight the good fight and then let go. Do what makes you happy. Everything else will fall into place. Life takes care of itself.
Posted by: Samuel | Thursday, 26 April 2012 at 05:46 PM
Truth triumphs.. eventually... Hang in there...
Posted by: TheRustGeek | Friday, 27 April 2012 at 09:50 AM
TheRustGeek...I use to believe that truth triumphs. Now I don't know. For 15 years I've been terrorized by a man who I believe is a psychopath. And I tried to tell the truth about him, no one believed me. Until I just stop. To say I've been enslaved by his madness would be putting it lightly.
Posted by: Kelly | Friday, 27 April 2012 at 11:47 PM
Kitten. You've been telling us who you are for 8 years. And sweetheart, you're beautiful outside as you are inside...you're a treasure. Never stop being you.
Posted by: Leah | Sunday, 29 April 2012 at 05:41 AM
I know how terrifying it is to stay and fight knowing that the truth will be used against you.
I didn't have money to hire a lawyer. I was threatened and bullied into silence and I am still living the nightmare. I hope that fighting back if nothing else, brings you peace.
Posted by: Anonymous | Sunday, 29 April 2012 at 02:29 PM
Best of hope as you shall prevail.
Posted by: Neal Goldberg | Monday, 30 April 2012 at 04:55 PM
Sorry that you continue in this abuse. Best of hope as you shall prevail.
Posted by: n | Monday, 30 April 2012 at 04:56 PM
Triumph it will... maybe not in the ways we want it to or come to see ourselves... but every step forward in a battle is ground gained. keep going, Skit, keep going.
Posted by: kmplx | Tuesday, 01 May 2012 at 04:01 AM
Moderate your comments to keep his poison off this site.
Posted by: fo4 | Tuesday, 01 May 2012 at 05:50 PM
Kit...when this is over, whatever the outcome, we're going to celebrate you:)
Posted by: BFF | Wednesday, 02 May 2012 at 05:47 PM
I'm with BFF on this one. When this is all over, we're going to celebrate you right here. I admire your spirit and resolve. Please keep on keeping on, sister. And don't ever give up.
I'm taking a break off blogging to sort out some stuff. Hope to be back soon. Stay blessed.
Adura x
Posted by: Adura Ojo | Monday, 07 May 2012 at 01:29 AM