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Books I Recommend

  • Walter Beckley: How To Build Your Sexual Muscle

Sexual Training

Wednesday, 18 February 2004

DANGEROUS SEX GAMES!

THE RAPE GAME:

A woman accuses her boyfriend of raping her. He denies it. Said they were playing "the rape game," where she runs and screams NO, and he chases, catches, and takes her.
The woman said she'd changed her mind. Boyfriend said he didn't know, saying no was part of the game.

CHOKING DURING SEX

Some people are turned on by this, and fine. But it's dangerous. The choked may end up dead, and the choker behind bars, screaming that she wanted me to do it. Who is going to believe you?

Saturday, 14 February 2004

GET KINKY FOR YOUR MAN!!

Wear high heels and nothing else. Clip tassels to your nipples and shake them? Dress up in the cheerleader’s costume he likes so much and give him a cheer? Or whatever costume he
likes. Dance for him. Disrobe while making breakfast for him, and if you drop something feel free to pick it up. Stand or lay naked for him to look at you. Don't push his hands away if he wants to touch--allow him to explore you. Sometimes all they want to do is look. Men are visual creatures, we should never forget that.

If your man is respectful of you, loves you, and shows his love in every way, why not reward him these little gifts? There’s no better time to start than right now.

Friday, 13 February 2004

HOW DO YOU FORGET AN OLD LOVER?

I don't know, but it happened to me yesterday. I was walking out of Victoria's Secret store and bumped into a man whose face lit up with recognition.

"Long time no see, beautiful," He said pulling me into a tight hug.

He was hot and smelled divine so I contemplated pretending knowing him, but I pulled away. "Who Are You?" I said.

He laughed. "As if you could ever forget about me,"

"Right," I said. "It was good seeing you. Take care now,"

"Is that all you have to say after all this time? How about lunch?" He said grabbing onto my arm.

Lunch with hot dude who smells divine. I thought again, but declined.

I was almost home before I remembered him. And that I really liked him four years ago.

Thursday, 12 February 2004

THE HUNK IN MY JACUZZI!!

You HUNKADOODLE! I thought looking at my personal trainer lowering his sculpted 24 year old body into my jacuzzi. He'd invited himself over and my boys were away, so I said yes. I have a crush, and he has a crush. He's naked. I'm watching.

He's been chasing me for five months but I'm enjoying the chase too much to give in now.

"Wanna join me?" He asked.

Of course I do. "No," I said.

He laughed. "It's only a matter of time, you know,"

"For what?" I asked.

"Before I catch you," he said, and laughed deep and throaty.

My muscles contracted and held in agonizing pleasure.

WHAT TO HAVE FOR VALENTINE!!

Flowers? Chocolate? Sex?

I want all three. Yes, you heard me. Why do I have to choose?

And if you don't have a valentine this year, don't despair. Do what I always do, send yourself a gift wrapped in romantic dressing. And enclose a written poem reminding you of how special you are. That reminds me...I have to make a trip to Victoria's Secret to pick up that special something that I'm sending myself.

Tuesday, 10 February 2004

Would You Stay With Someone Who Won't Kiss You??

How important is kissing in a relationship? Is it a must have? For the first time in my life I met a man who won't kiss me. And that's a shocker let me tell you. I brush my teeth three times a day, don't have a single cavity, got my teeth bleached, I'm so vain. My lips are full and juicy and pouts. I'd never had a man who didn't love kissing me--until now. This one says that he's allergic to me or something. He won't even kiss my breasts and you guessed it, no oral for me although he wants me to do it to him. Sorry, Bud.

I've been seeing him for three months now and I thought that I could do without kissing, but quite frankly, I don't want to. Kissing is such a beautiful intimate part of a relationship, and I'm not about to give it up. And so I'm going to end this--whatever it is. So answer me this question: How important is kissing in a relationship? And would you date a no kisser?

Monday, 09 February 2004

I still love Him

The Old Boyfriend... who still has the only piece of my heart, I've ever given a man. I left him because he lived with his mother and have two kids by two different, hellish women. I didn't know how to deal with the situation, more importantly, I didn't want to. Living with his mother until he got on his feet was one thing, having no plans to leave was another, plus two hellish ex's?

Three years ago I left him, telling him to get his life together, move out of his parents house and do something with the ex's. But I never forgot about him and never lost contact. He's one of the nicest man I've ever known. Loyal, caring, strong, full of integrity, and life, and he adored me. For every life defining moment in my life, he's been there. A shoulder to cry on, the voice of encouragement, a bit of laughter amidst the tears. He's also a 6'6 martial art giant who could break me with one finger, but has the most gentle hands. We're having brunch tomorrow and I always walk away with this intense sense of loss that I can't take him with me..

Single and Looking For Love!!

I sifted through my little black book, filled with names and numbers of lovers I shall never, and do not want to forget. I hide it from steady boyfriends just like you men hide yours from us. And it (my little black book) has always been my back up plan for dry spells--until last night. For the past five months I've been going to bed alone, and loving it. But last night was lonely--it was one of those cold, and windy nights with raindrops pounding my window--the kind of night when I would love to curl up to a man and make love all night. I paused occasionally over the familiar names, contemplating who to call--but instead of picking up the phone, I put in a Nina Simone CD and crooned with her until I fell asleep.

Sunday, 08 February 2004

My Mother Left My Father Many Times!!

....Without telling him, but she always come back. The woman is as complicated as they come. That's why my father loves her so much. They grew up together, but my father often jokes about not knowing her at all.

My mother has a bad habit of taking vacations and not telling anyone. She's been doing it ever since I can remember. A few weeks ago, I called to talk to her. "I THINK she's on vacation," my father said.

"Do you know where?" I asked.

"No," said my father.

"So what are you up to, pappy?" I said.

"I'm planning a trip myself," He said.

My parents have the most passionate marriage I've ever known. I think because even though they are married, they are still so free. My father never question my mother's faithfullness to him--he doesn't have to. And he never worry when she goes away, he knows that she'll come back.

Saturday, 07 February 2004

No More Sex In The Dark

Why do so many of us have sex in the dark? Is it more romantic OR are we ashamed to see ourselves behaving in this primitive but yet so NATURAL manner? Perhaps if we stop thinking and portraying sex as naughty, bad, wild, shameful and whatever else we label it, we will take away the forbidden stigma that society have pasted on it.

I was talking to a woman today who told me that she refuses to have sex with the lights on because she does not want her husband to see her naked. She sees sex as somehow dirty. Of course this bothers her husband who wants his wife untamed and free to express herself sexually.

Personally, I like to keep my lights on, and bring on the mirrors while we're at it. I like the experience to be untamed and free of hang-ups. I love to watch the jerk and shivers of my lover's naked body, the sweat glistening off his passion filled frame, the expressions on his face, and not only feel, but see my own responding to pleasure, my breasts rising and falling to the flow of his thrusts. And yes, I like to watch his body connecting with mine.

But from what I understand a lot of women don't like their partners to see them naked, insecurities about their bodies may be the cause, stretch marks, feeling fat, or shame about sexuality. But whatever it is, I think that it is important to be comfortable with our selves to the point where we can stand naked in front of a man and feel sexy.